I was asked during a VIP session in Carnoustie why so many mediums never bring children through – the lady asked with so much pain in her heart and tears in her eyes, as she had never had her son through.
This was the second most difficult question I had received this week as just the very night before, also during a VIP session but this time in Musselburgh I was asked by a grieving mum if children went to heaven whom had not been born yet as she had been told by another medium that because her baby was miscarried, it did not even exist and therefore did not get to go to heaven!
These questions always alarm me and it does worry me how some people are allowed to practice mediumship at all armed with such little knowledge and this can lead to further pain on top of the grief they already feel.
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So when it came to writing an article this week for me it was such an easy choice as these questions have been pressing on my mind and it got me thinking how many more of you are worrying about these issues and I just felt a huge need to speak!
All of my knowledge on these issues come from my work and over 4 decades of speaking to spirit. But I so wanted to allow you to be at rest in YOUR mind that your babies are in heaven – full stop NO EXCEPTIONS.
Whenever a person passes regardless of when they crossed, they ALWAYS show themselves to me or give an indication of the age they were at the time of passing if this is relevant to the reading I am giving.
It would be particularly relevant if I was dealing with the passing of anyone under the age of 16. This includes babies who were not given the chance to be born and babies who may have crossed before birth but were still born – an Angel baby.
I know this is a very tentative subject matter but it also includes babies who were terminated. This is a huge minefield and I am not here to judge. In many of these choices there was a deeper reason, perhaps one even the mum didn’t realise at the time.
However, they also cross to heaven and are greeted and treated just the same. When anyone crosses, our loved ones and pets are there to greet them and take care of them on our behalf, until “We Meet Again“.
It has long been my understanding that there is a school and although the lessons may not be like our conventional ones they truly are taught the values of being an Angel.
They also grow up and get to choose an age they are happy with and are ALWAYS around you and your children if they had siblings. It is often the case that other children are born after the loss and these are very much able to communicate with their sibling in heaven.
How many times may you have heard toys go off in the night or perhaps your new born baby just sits and smiles as if they are smiling at the air? Or maybe you have a baby monitor and hear talking but know that no one else is in the nursery?
These are beautiful signs from your Angel babies. They love to send butterflies as a sign when they are around, especially if they have siblings and will leave the very purest of white feathers.
Doris Stokes often said, “Children are souls that kiss the earth”.
Many of the questions I get asked concern if a child has been ill before the passing and I need to reassure you that all pain is not taken with us when we pass. We don’t feel this in heaven and all we may have endured is removed the very instant we cross over, children and babies included.
For many of the children who have passed it was only an ever too small brief visit on earth, to kiss us and say goodbye, but their work in heaven last our entire lifetime and more. They are light workers and spiritual angels of the highest order and are well taught in how to help others.
They can communicate the very second they cross and in some cases can even speak to me telepathically in the days leading to their crossing. I helped a very special 3 year old girl who was terminally ill and in a hospice. I was able to telepathically communicate with the girl in her last few days before her passing without being in the hospice. I reiterated everything the little girl said to the girls mother, who couldn’t believe how accurate the information was that I passed on from her daughter. It was such a special moment for both me and her mother knowing that I had given the mother comfort when she needed it the most. I will go in to more detail about this special moment in another article.
I have communicated with babies who had only just passed and they speak to me in fluent English! Proving that they grow up and are nurtured and guided in heaven along in their journey. They play and have fun as they would do on earth and often come through to me with such nonsense and tales to tell to let their family know they see everything.
Children are stronger and more resilient than we realise both on earth and in heaven. I always advocate that it is the ones left behind that have the worst pain.
My mum buried my brother, her son and said the day he died so did she and I feel there is no great loss than that of a child. I hope in a small way this article helps you to know that they are in heaven and wrap their angel wings around you EVERY day during your stay on earth.
Love Paula x