At most of our events we have a VIP section, these are hugely popular and always sell out. Many people ask what is a VIP ticket and how is it different to a standard ticket.
Firstly VIPs get the best seats in the house, usually front row but if the venue is smaller then it’s two rows. They receive a beautiful gift from me and best of all they get to remain for another 20 minutes after everyone else has left to take part in a Q & A session. The VIPs are limited in number so only a few people are in attendance.
I thought in this article it would be rather nice to go through some of the most frequently asked questions with you and my replies. It often helps to understand the process of grief and death and heaven which some of these questions cover these subjects.
Who knows perhaps you will find the answer to your question?
Q : Do pets come through?
A : Most definitely. There is no difference in heaven, it is all one as on earth. I have had so many animals come through to me as a medium I have lost count over the years. They always amaze me that when they come through I can communicate with them in a language I understand! How amazing is that?
Q : Did they know I was there with them?
A : This is a resounding yes. Even if they were in a coma or on life support they were always aware of your voice and your presence. They always hear you as the hearing is the last thing that goes when they cross over.
Q : I feel so guilty because I wasn’t with them when they crossed over and they died alone, are they cross with me?
A : Firstly anger is not an emotion they readily feel, so it is not an option. They are never ever alone as all of the family who has crossed before them are there to help them across. But mostly if this is what happened to your loved one then this is their choice.
So many times I have been told by spirit that they waited until someone went home or left the room and then chose to cross. So if you have experienced this, never feel guilty. You were NEVER meant to be there with them!
Q : Do they see us and know what we do?
A : This question is always asked in one form or another, did they see my baby being born, did they see me get married, did they like the funeral etc. They are ALWAYS with us and therefore, see whatever they need to see.
Don’t worry though, there are rules! No showers and bath visits lol. In my readings I have validated so many after their passing events it’s unreal! From babies to photos to songs to events to weddings to baby births and predictions. All to prove they truly don’t leave and walk with us to guide and protect us.
Q : How long does it take before they can communicate with us?
A : It is instant! From the very second they cross over they can talk to us and begin showing us signs however, they have to be ready and more importantly so do you!
It can take a while for us to be prepared to accept that they have crossed over and they need to be sure we are able to take the information they give us. You will know when you’re ready and so will they. They don’t need to heal or ascend to a higher cloud or have space to get used to it. They already know what to do, just sit back and wait! Look out for the signs.
Who knows maybe you’re already getting them?
Q: Did they meet my baby?
A: they get to see everything! And especially at important times of our life, they will be around, births and marriages are key visits for our loved ones. They will have been there at the birth and often are the ones who get the very first cuddle! Most of your loved ones lay claim to actually gifting you the baby after they have crossed as a gift from heaven.
Q: Another loved one was already in heaven when they died, did they know?
A: no one is EVER alone when they pass across and I mean no one. Just because we are not there with them when they cross does not mean they are alone. All of their family on the other side gather to take them over, and this can begin many days before the actual crossing over begins. Even babies and children who may have passed years and years ago will be there to greet them.
Q: My loved one waited until I left the room before they crossed over. Did they plan it this way?
A: This is a huge yes. I always say that around 70 % Need to have their earth loved ones with them and will wait for you to be in the room to cross. However, around 30% will wait until you nip home, or got to the loo or collect the kids to make their crossing to heaven. They do this for themselves and in their mind to make it easier for you. Little do they realise that this is never the case. It is, however, their choice and we must respect that choice, however much it can hurt us in the end.
Q: My child wakes up and talks to the air? Could this be a visit from spirit?
A: without doubt, this is your child beginning to speak to spirit the way I did at an early age. Every child until around the age of 12 can talk to our loved ones in heaven, from the very moment they come into this world and for them, it is perfectly natural. Perhaps you can encourage them to do this and not see it as something crazy or bad.
Q: How old were you when you began talking to spirit?
A: I was just 2 years old when I can first recall being able to speak to my imaginary friend! Turns out this was just the start of my journey that little did I know, would turn out to be quite the journey it is now.