At our events, we always have a VIP section. This is a lovely intimate gathering after the main event. Our guests get to ask questions and the questions can be of any content, maybe about myself or heaven or perhaps spirituality or even a direct question about a loved one.

Time and time again at these sessions I am asked this question over and over again.

 

“WHY DOES MY LOVED ONE NOT COME THROUGH “

 

It’s a timing thing and can be purely vibrations but there are so many factors that make up the “RIGHT TIME”

 

Having been able to talk to your loved ones since the tender age of 2,  I know of every reason why it doesn’t happen…….here is a rundown of some of the reasons.

 

• TIMING

However hard that might be to except, timing is so important. Our loved ones are able to come through the very second they cross and any time after that but the big question is…are we ready? Even though you’re yelling at me right now, yes yes yes, sometimes we are not! They could tell you things that you are just NOT ready to hear no matter how hard you try to convince me.

 

• DESPERATION

You can actually be too desperate to want to see them. In order to talk to your loved ones, you need to have a high vibration or at least a calmer one and not one of panic. Their vibration is so very fast, it runs on a high frequency and they are always with you but sometimes the slow and low vibration of you can push them away slightly a little like a radio station. We know that Heart Radio is 101 on the dial and always will be but when we force it or push it in some way our band changes and we have to search for it again.  They always remain the same frequency and that NEVER changes. This is more so at events when you sit there and panic and almost beg them ……they are trying to find your frequency and match it with mine and yours and sometimes it just doesn’t always gel together at the same time. BUT I stress again, they are always with you, the moment you think of them, they are there by your side.

 

• ASK

Have you ever just asked them to come through?  Sometimes the simplest solution is the easiest. I have had some people send invites out to their loved one’s weeks before a reading or an event!  Yes, it worked! Just a simple note to say please come and say hi ~ you could do this in your head ….but then just trust the process, don’t keep repeating the same question.

 

• ENGAGED

At my events, I often refer to myself as the telephone operator.  I take all the calls on the night from heaven, and as stupid as this sounds, sometimes when your loved one calls me I may be on another call! Simple but very true. It’s like trying to call for those all important tickets at 10 am on the day of release or get a doctors appointment lol…you keep pressing redial and every time the engaged signal comes up. Frustrating? Yes very but that’s also what happens in heaven.  

 

The title of this article is titled BE PATIENT.  I know it’s so hard when we are so wanting to hear directly from that certain someone special but it is always worth the wait and I was inspired to write this after a recent VIP session when I insisted this lady asked a question and her question was just what this has been about …..she said she had been waiting 17 years for a certain someone to come through and kept attending events and private readings ( not all with me I add ) and this person never came through. With that a lady appeared beside her and announced she was her sister and she had crossed of breast cancer….this was all it took! 17 years in the making but what a delivery and what a message, simple and to the point and full of love but perfectly timed. A little patience is often all it takes and being in the right place at just the right time! Perfect

 

So don’t rush or panic and always know when it’s right it WILL happen!

 

Lots of Love

Paula xx